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Saturday, January 20, 2007 || HuRTiNg aNd LoViNg ||You realize that you love someone when you are already hurting… and that really sucks! Last night, a friend of mine called me.. she was crying because she was hurting.. People get hurt when that someone he or she cared suddenly changes. It was that night that I realized the dangers of hurting.. Hurt can lead to revenge, anger, and even death. Just like love. I also got hurt, but the first thing that came out in my mind during that time was revenge. But As I continue with my journey, I realize that I have loved much that's why I am hurting. Maybe that's the reason why I don't want to be committed with someone. My friend then asks me what she should do. I honestly told her that I don’t know. She knows that I don’t give advice, I only listen. Because I know that she knows the answer but she’s not sure of doing it. When you give advice to someone, it will either worsen his or her situation or make it better. But I want to play it safe. I don’t want to control my friend’s head nor her feelings. It’s true that “time heals all wounds.” To fasten the healing process, you don’t need to have another guy, you just need three things, family, friends, and God. But your “hurts” will always leave a scar. You know what, I am proud that I have a lot of scars because these scars helped me be the person that I am now. I have learned from my stupid mistakes and finally loved myself. The tendency of loving is that you let him control your life. You let him decide for yourself, and that really sucks… When you get hurt by him, you feel like you’ve lost everything! Reality is, you’ve lost yourself when you gave your life to that person. A commitment doesn’t mean that “what’s yours is his already” but It is sharing what yours without losing what you have and who you are…
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